What 'Being Positive' Means to us

To us  positivity isn't happiness, a lot of the time when people say 'be positive' people read it as 'be happy' but to us that’s not why I use the word. We thing being positive is finding hope even though you might be going through a hard time. Still seeing good the things around you and doing your best to focus on those good and enjoyable things. You don’t have to feel happy and you don’t even have to pretend to, you can be as sad or upset as you want but still have positivity. You can say today I’m feeling absolutely horrible, I’m struggling so much and it is really hard BUT it might be better tomorrow, I can do this, I can fight this. To us, positivity is loads of small things build together to make your strength. We know being able to do that is really HARD. Finding a place where you can still hold onto your positive thoughts is difficult and that’s why you have friends and why the internet can be such a helpful place, because others can remind you that YOU can be positive.


  • Happy Jar

    Find an old jam jar and wash it out to make it into a happy jar. Inside put little slips of colorful paper with happy memories and encouraging words. whenever you are sad you can reach into the happy jar and be reminded of happy things to encourage you to be positive. you could even make one for someone else and fill it up with amazing things about them and give it as a gift.

  • POst-It-notes

    Get some post-it notes or some strips of paper and sellotape. write positive messages about yourself on them and then Stick them around your room. If you struggle with body confidence then stick them on the areas of your body you are insecure about and write something positive about it. To do this you may need the help of a friend, you could even stick them on each other and then you would both be shining with positivity.

  • Write a letter

    Sit down and write a letter for someone telling them how much you love and appreciate them. We take for granted the people we love the most, and taking the time to write a letter to them may seem small but they will appreciate it a lot.

  • best part of me

    Grab a camera or your phone and take photos of your favourite parts of you, print them out and write why they are the best. For example, my hands are the best part of me because they help me make things. I also like my eyes because they see all the colours in the world.

  • container for thoughts

    Get two jam jars or two boxes and put all the negative thoughts you have on a piece of paper. put it in the negative box then do the opposite with the positive thoughts to keep them safe!

  • Positive Affirmations

    Take a sheet of paper or journal  and fill it with positive affirmations. 

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